Aug 10, 2026
The first 30 seconds of a hard conversation predict how it ends — with 96 percent accuracy. In Part 3 of the Being Heard series, Ron breaks down Dr. John Gottman's research on "hard startups" versus "softened startups," and what it means for the hardest conversations men rebuilding after loss are facing right now —...
Aug 3, 2026
Grief has its own first thirty seconds. Research on hard conversations shows the opening moment predicts how the whole thing ends — and this episode of Rewrite The Story breaks down what that means for the man rebuilding his life after loss. Ron shares the rideshare conversation that became the reason he wrote his...
Jul 27, 2026
Why does a completely reasonable, calmly said sentence still start a fight? For men rebuilding after losing a spouse, tone often carries old grief long after the words themselves have healed — and the people closest to you can hear that history in your voice before they hear what you're actually saying. In this...
Jul 20, 2026
Being truly heard by someone who loves you is one of the most specific and irreplaceable experiences a human being can have — and most widowers don't realize it's what they're grieving until someone names it for them. In this episode, Ron "Simplified" Myers walks through what being heard actually meant inside the...
Jul 13, 2026
Being heard in grief starts before anyone else is in the room — it starts with the version of the truth you're willing to say to yourself first. In this episode of Rewrite The Story, Ron "Simplified" Myers looks at why so many men quietly shrink the real story down to something easier to hand people, and what changes...